Is love hurting? Yes, love can hurt. It needs to find a way to stop hurting. You need to find a way to get out of your hurting situation so that you can 'breath' again and feel back to normal. How do you do this? How do you get back to feeling your old self again?
Poor you, you've been through so much pain. You think your love hurting is perhaps partly your own fault. Perhaps it is, but you're only human and there's never any reason to blame yourself for looking for love.
We all need to find love. But for now, your pain will start to affect your health, if you let it. So, you need to sit yourself down in a quiet and tranquil place; and just allow yourself to breath deeply. Start to give yourself some time.
As time goes on the pain will become less. So remember your health is very important and for that reason alone, you need to bring yourself into a quieter momentum to look after your self. Your spirit, your chemistry, your energy - they all need some quiet time to recover. Let yourself leave your emotions for now. Don't let your emotions affect your health.
Deep breathing helps a good deal. So try breathing slowly and deeply. Learn to look after your inner self and your health and to put that first. Your need for love and your efforts to find it are for another day. The most important person in the world is you. Your needs - your hurting love - all will find a nurturing and quiet place within yourself.
You may have been hurt badly and repeatedly. You may have partly been to blame as you were asking too much of a person. If you know the person well enough to fall in love, then you may also know; perhaps they weren't ready. You need to look for the signs of readiness for love.
Your love is a very precious thing afterall, so don't give it out too readily to those who won't or can't accept it. Thats all for now. You need to take yourself in hand and to be gentle and loving within. Then your love hurting situation will start to move away and your body will strengthen and you'll start again.
When you're ready and stronger and if you think you want to learn more; look for help. If you need to get someone back and your love hurting is overwhelming you try HERE - perhaps we can help.
